Signs He’s Wasting Your Time (and You’re Letting Him)

Dear Diamond Girl,

In this blog post you’ll find a useful short list and powerful FEMM affirmations! Be sure to read and let me know how they feel for you. 🙂

I’m amazed by the frequency of high value and intelligent women I speak to, who are stressed out and over-invested in a man who’s merely texting them or has even walked away.

I was once such a woman; over-invested and clinging to a man’s past text messages, shared memories and WORSE, his P-O-T-E-N-T-I-A-L.

I could not let go of the hope of having something more with him and continuing a story that never materialized (thankfully!).

In exchange for the time I spent worrying over and waiting on him, I lost months/years of my life that can never be regained. This is a voluntary way a woman loses herself and becomes damaged emotionally by the man.

While I was over-invested and lost in the fog of potential, I was too preoccupied to make connections with others.

I would refute and become slightly irritated by anyone who tried to coax me back to reality. Any new man I met didn’t compare and, quite frankly, all I seemed to attract were creeps (keep reading!)

I was sleepwalking through life, stuck in immaterialized potential with this man, and heartbroken.

In reality, this man was toying with me and not showing true signs of commitment and maturity. Again, I was stuck in memories and potential-land, intent on recreating the life or experiences I once had with him. In effect: time-wasting my life and my potential.

I have created a quick bullet list below — things to consider if you feel over-invested in a man who’s merely texting you or not showing up, followed by a FEMM (Feminine Energy Mindset Method) response YOU CAN USE NOW.

Diamond Girl, I created my ABC’s to Get Him Program, not only to give you the Absolute Best Chances to Get Him Back, but to REGAIN LOVELY, AMAZING YOU!

As long as you are stuck clinging to his texts, reliving old memories and deep in pain, quality men will not be drawn to you.

Predators or creeps can sense a woman is at a time of low-point. Likewise, you may desperately cling to someone that isn’t right for you, out of fear of being alone.

The list of negatives goes on and on, and this is why the ABCs works on transforming YOU. Your desired man will return, or you will attract a new, high-quality man.
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The ABCs Program works by rebuilding you.

Warning Signs of a Time Waster &

Your FEMM Response

  1. If you’re in a fog or chronic bad mood because this person has not returned or is not texting you back/pursuing you. FEMM response to self: If he truly loved me and wanted to be here with me, he would. It’s as simple as that. Nothing would keep him away if he wanted me.
  2. He uses a lot of lovely words and poetry, such as “I love you” or “No one else like you,” but he doesn’t match those words with ACTION. If he truly loved me and I was so special to him, he’d show up and date me regularly. I look for actions in a man, not just words.
  3. You’re pursuing the relationship and he’s being lackadaisical. As a Powerful Feminine Energy Woman, I prefer to be pursued by a man. I do not want to do his work for him. I now allow myself to receive.
  4. He shuts down and gets angry or defensive when you bring up commitment or marriage. “Yes, I am curious where you see us going? I don’t feel like we are on the same page. Is there something I should know?”“500 Ways” ebook found here.
  5. You attract men who are not yet divorced, are newly separated or still married. I now attract quality and available men who are seeking a loving, long-lasting relationship that leads to marriage.

Let’s remedy any old-rooted desires or impulses to stay in or keep a relationship that’s in the fantasy world of potential and memories. The only person who gets hurt by a Time-Waster is YOU.

We have to trust that the partner we chose can figure it out himself. He must take the steps to pursue and claim you, period! If he can’t do it on his own, ask: Is this truly my dream relationship, where I must do the work for him? (See Video Below.)

The take away from this blog post is:

If he really loved you and wanted to be with you, he would.

This is not meant to be harsh, but to coax you into reality and break away from old patterns that don’t serve you. This is how you shine like the #DiamondGirl you are!

You need not get lost in the world of his potential or feel that no other man will replace him. This is why I created the ABCs to Get Him Back Program!

Did you know most of the women who attract back the man they wanted, or their Ex, later decide they indeed do not want him back? Why is that? It has everything to do with who you become in the ABCs process. You polish and restore your diamond self!

Once you learn the FEMM TOOLS I teach you, your outlook and boundaries shift to a place where you are highly desired by all men and you’re no longer having to do the man’s work for him.



Stay grounded, Diamond Girl,

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