How to Find a Good Man Without Chasing, Settling, or Overgiving
Dear Diamond Girls,
If you’re trying to find a good marriage minded man without chasing, settling, or overgiving, you’re not alone. Many women are loving, loyal, and deeply committed—but still feel stuck in relationship patterns that leave them anxious, drained, or unsure of what to do next. The good news is that lasting love becomes much more possible when you shift the patterns, boundaries, and feminine energy habits that shape who you attract and what you accept.
Today on Instagram, I shared 20+ wedding and engagement photos from Diamond Girls who found lasting love after doing the inner work and using my self-study relationship programs—and I’m celebrating every one of them. 🍾
What Happens When Women Stop Chasing and Start Choosing Differently
Many women don’t realize they’re chasing love until they feel exhausted, anxious, and disconnected from themselves. Overgiving, overexplaining, and trying to direct a man can feel like “effort,” but it often comes from fear and urgency—not true connection. The more a woman abandons her boundaries to keep love, the more unstable the relationship can feel. When women stop chasing and start choosing differently, they create space for healthier love, stronger standards, and real emotional connection.
These women rose above their Masculine Energy relationship blocks, and YOU CAN TOO.
Real Love Stories From Women Who Changed Their Relationship Patterns
Vulnerability is a good thing.
Practicing vulnerability is a powerful way to attract the right guy, strengthen your relationship, and enhance your Feminine Energy.
When you discover and share the real YOU, minus any manipulation, you reveal the beauty of your red-beating heart. ❤️
Men cannot resist an authentic woman. My Answer Deck is a great way to look deeper into your soul and reflect on your desires and impulses. You can challenge Masculine Energy and enhance your attractive Feminine Energy with every card. You can problem solve and receive inspiration at your fingertips.

How 500 Ways Helps You Speak From Your Heart
Nearly every day I receive social media posts or emails praising my eBook, “500 Ways.”
The greatest benefit of “500 Ways” is in learning how to find your vulnerable truth instead of thinking about what you should say to a man.
Thinking or calculating the right words to say is Masculine Energy, and facts do not connect you with a man’s heart. Feminine Energy invites a man toward you with every word, whisper, and subtle energy vibration. My eBook comes with two video classes.
How Feminine Energy Helped Me Heal, Rebuild, and Call In Lasting Love
Feminine Energy taught me to love myself, just the way I am, and loving yourself is the strongest aphrodisiac a good marriage minded man craves in a woman.
I’ve come a long way in my life, from divorced to dumped-and-dating over age 40, to dating with a black eye from my Graves’ eye surgeries. I didn’t let a wounded spirit stop me. I kept my healing eyes on the prize despite the obstacles and called forth a loving relationship with my husband Jeff.
I continue to use the tools I created in New Man Manifesto, because relationships are constantly expanding and contracting. With New Man Manifesto you get the clarity and tools you need to rebuild, or call forth the right man, no matter if you are single or committed. People change all the time! BONUS: Includes the VIP Library with more than 20 items.
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If you aren’t quite ready to make a purchase, you can always listen to my podcast, This Podcast is for Women.
Spotify raked me in the top 10% of their relationship section!
You can listen on any podcast platform, like Apple, Stitcher, or Audible.
If I’ve helped you become a relationship success, please feel free to reply to this email with your #testimonial. I’d love to share your story!
Sending you love today and always,

P.S. Would you like to coach 1:1 with me privately or in a group setting? Learn more HERE.
This blog was updated on March 3, 2026 to reflect new information.




