Attract Your Forever Man With Changes in the Bedroom

You may have discovered by now that setting goals in relationships with men don’t work. The relationship unfolds on its own.

Just as you cannot rush a flower to bloom by pressing its petals open, forcing growth in a relationship will also leave you with damaged petals… Feng shui techniques are risk-free, will leave you feeling good and inspired, and opens up space for love to flow… and this is a good feeling place to be if you want to attract a quality man.

You may find you feel more connected & confident in your home as a Feminine Energy woman once you make these simple but important changes.

Feng Shui – For Your Bedroom

Photos:  Remove all family photographs from your bedroom. Your bedroom is not the place for other family members past or present, this space is only about you and him.

Art Work: If you have any art or pictures that represent solitude, or a single item is posed, such as one butterfly, get it out! For years I had a famous photograph called “Missed Connection” hung in my bedroom. It showed a woman and man walking in different directions on a sidewalk, both looking very lonely… As you can imagine I removed this photo from my bedroom at lightning speed!

You want photos or art hung that depict pairs of things, or photos or art that represent love, or soft wonderful and loving feelings… Feel free to get girly and romantic and take a decorating chance.

Bedside Furniture: Ideally you want two matching bedside tables on each side of the bed. You want to make space for your man by your bed, so find a way to get him his very own bedside table. Keep the bedside drawers empty for him.  Don’t fill them with what you think he needs… leave them empty for him to claim if and when he wants to. (More on that below.)

Dresser Drawer: Clean out a dresser drawer in your bedroom for some of his clothes. Give him a good drawer too, not the bottom one. Line it in nice paper, make sure it is clean and imagine some of his folded clothes sitting in this drawer one day. Close the drawer, trusting the next time you open it, it will be for a man you adore to place his things.

Closet:  Once you clear out old clothes from your home you will already be feeling very good and clear – go one step further by leaving your future man ample room in your closet to hang his items as well. Make sure you leave him some hangers too! Be sure he has at least one hanger for a heavy coat and a few hangers for trousers too.

Bedroom Layout: The relationship center of your bedroom is located in the far right corner of your room. So when you enter your bedroom door, the far right corner is where you want to have items of passion and love. You also want items in pairs if possible. I have a small two-tiered table with heart-shaped candles and a lacy frilly doily in this space. It looks and feels very feminine and warm each time I look in that direction. 

I also have two beautiful paperweights that are dear to me, and when I look at them I feel a lot of love. In this space in your room put some special things that represent love and romance to you. Candles in pairs work very well here…

Lovemaking, Sleeping, and No Business: Get your computer out of your bedroom, and any other magazines about business or finance, or things that are business or work-related. 

Many people feel a TV is a bad thing to have in your bedroom, however, we live in a time of snuggling and Netflix binge-watching, and I think a TV or player can have its place. You can always cover it up with a pretty scarf when not in use.