Why Do I Feel Emotionally Numb Around the People I Love?
Dear Diamond Girl,
In this video and article, I share more about how to HEAL WOUNDED FEMININE ENERGY and HEAL YOUR INNER GIRL.
I’ll never forget that feeling of desperately wanting a stable and loving relationship, yet also feeling numb. My mind knew what I wanted, yet my body couldn’t fully feel the love, warmth, closeness and safety I craved in a relationship.
I could logically tell you what I felt, but when I was with a man, I mostly resonated with strong feelings of discontent, anger, frustration or loneliness.
With loved ones, I knew I loved them, but I felt on the edge of my seat when around them. I felt better if I had an activity or chore I could do in their company instead of simply having my heart open and sharing space together.
I had a difficult time connecting to the safe warm feelings of love. True love meant healing, feeling vulnerable, safe and foremost trusting myself.
In addition to not fully connecting on a deep level, Wounded Girl may be attracted to a certain man and other wounded men.
Do you know the difference between your Ego States – who is speaking and when?
Wounded Inner Girl may be running your relationship. She’s a child, not an adult. But do you know when she’s speaking or not? Do you know her age or when she’s taking charge?
Ask yourself things like: Are you really getting your relationship needs met? Who is running the show in your life (right now)? Who is speaking, who is making your decisions for you (in a given moment)?
When you heal wounded inner girl by communicating with her – it is YOU who is in the relationship and your life, not a child. I discuss journaling, affirmations, ego states, and healthy boundaries and limits in this video.
You can also listen to this episode: This Podcast Is For Women Episode #88 – Wounded Feminine (Inner Girl Work)
Your Ongoing Feminine Energy Path to Wellness
A man in your life can often lead you to higher ground, even when the relationship itself does not work out. Many of my clients say their lives improve as they learn and practice Feminine Energy tools. They feel more connected to their bodies, their authentic selves, and the people they love. They develop stronger boundaries, feel more confident in what they say, and experience less conflict in their relationships.
So, what led you to Feminine Energy? Read more about finding your path here.
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