How to Get Your Man to Really Listen

Get All His Love By Putting Psychology & Lectures Aside

Dear Diamond Girls,

Do you want your man to really hear you, get closer, and become more devoted to you? It’s a wonderful feeling to have a man working hard to please you and be your #1.

But how do we do activate a man’s natural instinct to claim us without being manipulative or controlling?

How feminine energy inspires masculine energy.

Women appreciate being adored and given attention and affection by a masculine energy man. We like to feel loved, cared for and connected thorough conversation, sharing and quality time.

Likewise, men appreciate the opportunity to serve, to have their woman proud of them, to feel ‘wet’ for them, and be impressed by what they can do and how well they can do it!

Your approval and pleasure is a man’s feel-good fuel.

Yet, it must be authentic and not to control a man.

It requires you to look for the good things he says and does.

When a woman rewards a man for the small things, this builds onto bigger things he can proudly do for you and the relationship.

A man may not always do what we want or prefer, of course. This isn’t about control. But he can be rewarded for the good he does do!

A man can hold a grudge if reprimanded, scolded or left feeling small. They want to be the one in charge and not making mistakes that get them ‘in trouble’ with you.

Women cringe when a man is pathetic, insolent, disrespectful and disobedient. We prefer well-behaved men with a masculine edge.

When you cherish the small things he does with feminine energy words of warmth, the man responds positively.

How can a woman have a truly masculine energy man?

When men ‘disappoint’ us and the facade of perfection gets shattered, our Inner Boy is called into action! Nothing repels a masculine man faster.

A woman’s masculine side or Inner Boy has a superior intellect of words, psychology, and problem-solving capabilities. This is when a woman can begin to manage a man and cover him with her energy.

The man recoils and feels he’s under a microscope.

When your Inner Boy is overly active, a man will accept the challenge and stick around for a certain amount of time. Yet at some point, he will fatigue, decide he cannot win against you, duck out and run, or shut down and withdraw.

In the worst case scenario, the man gets activated into his feminine energy.

We have all known or experienced feminine energy men and how exhausting this type of relationship can be.

All the while, as he licks his wounds, he is angry at himself for not being able to ‘win’ and smites the person who dominated him. A woman may think she has ‘won’ the argument, but in fact you lose your sensitive man in the process.

When you give up criticizing a man, and peel your energy off of managing him, the man begins to relax around you. When he is relaxed, he can do his very best job.

You can encourage him by saying things that acknowledge what he did right and that you look forward to more.

“I noticed you did a great job taking the trash bins out last week. It felt so good to have the home smelling clean and things running smoothly. If you have more ideas on this, I’d love to hear them.”

He might have forgotten to take out the recycling, but instead of focusing on that, you create a dialogue and praise the good that did happen.

Get more words and phrases that men really hear, and watch him connect to your heart like never before.

Sending you much love today & always,

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