I Can Help You Call Forth Your Forever Man
Hi, I’m Adrienne Everheart, a Feminine Energy dating and relationship coach for women. I’ve helped thousands of women call forth and align with the partner they desire.
What Diamond Girls Are Saying
Below are a few testimonials I’d like to share.
From the Very First Hello to “I Do”
My course, FEMM Tools for Dating, is a proven roadmap that moves you from the very first hello to “I do.” And if you’re already dating a man you want to move forward with, FEMM Tools shows you how.
Right now you can get all 4 of my FEMM courses in one bundle for just $36:
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A Feminine Energy tool you can begin using today
The 36 Questions That Lead to Love (Full List)
The questions come in three sets, and each set goes a little deeper than the one before. Take turns answering, move through them in order, and give yourselves about 45 minutes to an hour.
Set 1
Questions 1 to 12
- Given the choice of anyone in the world, whom would you want as a dinner guest?
- Would you like to be famous? In what way?
- Before making a telephone call, do you ever rehearse what you are going to say? Why?
- What would constitute a “perfect” day for you?
- When did you last sing to yourself? To someone else?
- If you were able to live to the age of 90 and retain either the mind or body of a 30-year-old for the last 60 years of your life, which would you want?
- Do you have a secret hunch about how you will die?
- Name three things you and your partner appear to have in common.
- For what in your life do you feel most grateful?
- If you could change anything about the way you were raised, what would it be?
- Take four minutes and tell your partner your life story in as much detail as possible.
- If you could wake up tomorrow having gained any one quality or ability, what would it be?
Set 2
Questions 13 to 24
- If a crystal ball could tell you the truth about yourself, your life, the future or anything else, what would you want to know?
- Is there something that you’ve dreamed of doing for a long time? Why haven’t you done it?
- What is the greatest accomplishment of your life?
- What do you value most in a friendship?
- What is your most treasured memory?
- What is your most terrible memory?
- If you knew that in one year you would die suddenly, would you change anything about the way you are now living? Why?
- What does friendship mean to you?
- What roles do love and affection play in your life?
- Alternate sharing something you consider a positive characteristic of your partner. Share a total of five items.
- How close and warm is your family? Do you feel your childhood was happier than most other people’s?
- How do you feel about your relationship with your mother?
Set 3
Questions 25 to 36
- Make three true “we” statements each. For instance, “We are both in this room feeling ...”
- Complete this sentence: “I wish I had someone with whom I could share ...”
- If you were going to become a close friend with your partner, share what would be important for him or her to know.
- Tell your partner what you like about them.
- Share with your partner an embarrassing moment in your life.
- When did you last cry in front of another person? By yourself?
- Tell your partner something that you like about them already.
- What, if anything, is too serious to be joked about?
- If you were to die this evening with no opportunity to talk to anyone, what would you most regret not having told someone? Why haven’t you told them yet?
- Your house catches fire. After saving loved ones and pets, you have time to safely make a final dash to get any one item. What would it be? Why?
- Of all the people in your family, whose death would you find most disturbing? Why?
- Share a personal problem and ask your partner’s advice on how they might handle it. Ask your partner to reflect back to you how you seem to be feeling about the problem you have chosen.
The Last Step
Stare into each other’s eyes for four minutes.
The 36 Questions come from research by psychologist Dr. Arthur Aron and colleagues at Stony Brook University.
The 36 Questions That Lead to Love: A Feminine Energy Approach to Dating
Dear Diamond Girl — the 36 Questions That Lead to Love are a simple, powerful way to build emotional connection. Whether you’re dating or in a relationship, they’re a beautiful way to practice Feminine Energy feeling statements in real conversations.
First, What Are Feminine Energy Feeling Statements & Why Do Men Respond So Well? (And How to Use Them in Dating & Relationships)
What are Feminine Energy feeling statements?
How do I know I’m speaking what I feel?
Where can I learn more about feeling statements?
Do you want words and scripts that speak directly to a man's heart?
Get “500 Ways to Talk to a Man” → Instant access • Scripts for every situation • Use tonightThe Right Way to Use the 36 Questions (Without Over-Investing)
A few of my FEMM Tools for Dating clients have shared this funny (and slightly exhausting) story: men they meet online who want to go through all 36 questions… before they even meet for coffee.
These questions can be beautiful when used in the right moment.
My Feminine Energy Protocol for Love and Commitment (That Actually Works)
Prioritize a real phone call before investing in deep emotional texting.
Save deeper emotional conversations for real-life connection.
Meet in person for a quick first date as an "experiment" to see if there's more interest.
If he’s a kind, emotionally available man—even if the attraction feels neutral at first—consider a second date. Attraction can grow over time, and old relationship wounds often cloud our perception of healthy men at first.
Remember: connection grows in real life, not just through texting or phone calls.
Femm Tools for Dating can help you connect with a man you desire effortlessly while also helping you weed out time wasters.
If you happen to be in a relationship where you’re not getting commitment—a ring, a proposal, or your needs are going unmet— I wrote something that can help.
Read: “Why Walking Away Works” — 3 Tips on Exactly What to Say & Do →Your Ongoing Feminine Energy Path to Wellness
A man in your life can often lead you to higher ground, even when the relationship itself does not work out. Many of my clients say their lives improve as they learn and practice Feminine Energy tools. They feel more connected to their bodies, their authentic selves, and the people they love. They develop stronger boundaries, feel more confident in what they say, and experience less conflict in their relationships.
So, what led you to Feminine Energy? Read more about finding your path here.
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The Science Behind the 36 Questions That Lead to Love
Whether you’re married or want to be partnered, these questions can be beneficial in any relationship. They help keep conversations flowing, maintain curiosity, and deepen emotional closeness.
The science behind it:
The 36 Questions work because they combine simple communication structure with active listening and gentle emotional depth. Each question invites a slightly deeper level of sharing, which naturally builds connection over time.
These questions also reveal our vulnerable sides—which leads to connection, trust, and intimacy.
The 36 Questions That Lead to Love have been studied and shown to build connection and foster feelings of love. That said, lasting love requires more than just 36 questions—it requires presence, safety, and real-life connection.
How to Practice Feminine Energy While Answering the 36 Questions
I encourage you to read through these questions and notice the progression of intimacy they create. As you answer, see what it feels like to respond from a place of Feminine Energy.
This is beautiful practice for you, Diamond Girls. Try answering with simple feeling statements like:
- I feel…
- I’m feeling…
- I felt…
My Feminine Energy Answers to the 36 Questions (Real Examples)
To get you started, here are my authentic, feminine, agenda-free answers—straight from the heart. As you read them, notice what opens in you and what feelings arise.
I randomly selected one of the 36 questions to share as examples.
QUESTION #17: What is your most treasured memory?
MY FEMININE ANSWER: This question evokes powerful emotions, reminding me of the profound impact of faith, prayer, and miracles.
As an adult, my relationship with religion, spirituality, and belief in God, the Universe, or the Great Unknown has evolved many times. Even so, this experience shaped my soul in a way I will never forget.
I am transported back to a moment of sheer magic from my early childhood, around the age of 3 or 4.
It was a terrifying and desperate time when an emergency situation unfolded involving my brother and father. The urgency required my Mom and I to reach the hospital immediately, but our family car was with my father.
On our property, there sat an old red truck that hadn't moved in ages.
In my Mom's desperation, she loaded me into the old truck and attempted to start its lifeless engine. It remained silent, doing nothing.
I recall feeling a knot in my stomach, not comprehending the situation entirely but knowing that the truck needed to start. My dear mother's face wore a sad and defeated expression I had never seen before.
My mother asked me to join her in prayer, and to put my hands together, we were going to pray to Jehovah.
I had never clasped my hands together so quickly. Mom reached out to God, pleading for a miracle to get us to the hospital, "Please let this truck start, God!"
My Mom then turned the ignition, and to our amazement, with a loud WOOSH and ROAR, the old red truck sprang to life! đźš—đź’¨
I will forever remember the look of astonishment and gratitude on my mother's face and feeling the power of God and prayer.
In that moment, as a young child, I experienced the profound nature of miracles, the strength of praying with someone, and the power of faith. I felt that anything was possible with enough love, belief, and prayer.
That old red truck, seemingly running on God's love and sheer determination, miraculously transported my mother and me all the way to Duke Hospital where my father and brother fought for their lives.
Using the 36 Questions to Build Real Connection
So, my Diamond Girls, let me ask you, do you feel a closer connection with me now?
Can you sense my heartfelt emotions pulsating within the words I've shared here?
For your homework: Can you discover the emotions and words that reveal your tender feminine heart? Cultivating vulnerability and warmth in your expression is the path to LOVE and CONNECTION.
Are you in need of a miracle?
If you’re ready to restart your love life, save the love you have, or call in the love you truly desire— you don’t have to do it alone.
Reach out for 1:1 coaching, or start with my bestselling ebook “500 Ways to Talk to a Man” for scripts you can use right away.
Thank you for listening—and for allowing me to be part of your feminine rediscovery.
LOVE and MIRACLES to you all!
Complete Course Collection
Every program I've ever created. One gorgeous bundle.
Why choose just one when you can have it all? Get my complete Feminine Energy library — courses, VIP bonuses, and meditations — at one unbeatable price. Diamond Girl, this one's for you.
Updated February 20, 2026
