How does one learn softness?
Hello Beautiful,
2026 is right around the corner, and now more than ever, it’s time to face relationship challenges & patterns head-on and try something new.
A little about my own personal transformation… I was once the world’s greatest “ball-buster.” 😂
I was tough on everyone, especially men.
Pre-understanding Feminine Energy was one of the most confusing chapters of my life.
That’s because I did not understand (or refused to understand) men, women, tension, and polarity.
If men are supposed to be the strong ones, why did the men I dated fall apart the moment life got real?
Why did I always end up carrying the emotional load for both of us?
It seemed like every man I knew was goofy, inept, and stupid. So how did they get all that power?
Back when I was an exterior TOUGH GIRL, I carried a protective barrier around me at all times.
In fact, even when I wore dresses and looked girly-nice, I’d get so much male attention it would frighten me… so back to the combat boots and torn jeans I’d go!
I longed for a different type of relationship… one I couldn’t even describe.
During my tough girl era, I attracted a lot of cool dudes to hang out with, but they’d either friend zone me or cling to me like Mama.
A few Feminine Energy boyfriends would have made remarkable husbands… had I not gotten painfully bored and lost all interest in them sexually.
You may be in a different scenario or phase of life but perhaps you can relate?
Does your tough girl vibe push men away?
I’m talking about all MEN, not just your husband or the hot guy at the gym.
Helpful men, attractive men, dads, uncles, brothers, co-workers, peers, well-meaning guys who don’t mind helping you move, being a shoulder to cry on and breaking the bro code to give you inside advice or information they’d otherwise keep to themselves.
This is where things got very confusing for me personally, so I made a video to help YOU!
Watch the video, and listen to the podcast on Spotify or Apple if you’re on the go!
If dating has you feeling like giving up and you want a happily ever after story for 2026…
FEMM Fast-Track is a fast-paced module based course that is designed to make Feminine Energy dating simple.
If you still need some convincing, check out my growing testimonials here. Feel free to reply back to this email too!
Your Feminine Energy isn’t lost, she’s waiting.
