The sometimes confusing art of Feminine Energy
Are you feeling drained when it comes to communicating and connecting with men?
It’s a common tale when you’re a power dynamite woman (PDW) in a world that often expects you to lead, even in love.
Other times you may feel you’re leaning back, and it’s not working or meeting your expectations.
But here’s a secret: when you lean back into your glorious Feminine Energy with an Empowered Masculine Man, you open the door to a whole different kind of experience.
Part 1: The Irresistible Pull of Feminine Energy
When you embrace your feminine essence, you magnetize men who are:
- Empowered and Driven: They take the lead, make plans, and eagerly pursue you. They want to be the one who makes things happen.
- Generous and Giving: These are the men who delight in showering you with attention, care, and yes, even their resources. Your happiness is their mission.
- Attuned to Your Joy: Your smile becomes their reward. They care deeply about your well-being and are dedicated to making you feel cherished.
- Respectful and Eager to Please: They honor your boundaries, understand the pace you set, and genuinely want to win your affection.
For a truly Masculine man, a woman deeply rooted in her Feminine Energy isn’t a challenge; she’s the ultimate prize. And he’ll happily put in the effort to win her heart.
The Trap of Leaning Forward
Now, what happens when you find yourself always initiating, planning, or even giving gifts?
What happens when the man says, “why don’t you text more often,” or, “you leave all the details up to me?” or, “I’m not sure if you’re really into me?”
When you constantly lean forward in your Masculine Energy, you often attract a different breed of man AND sustain or feed a trapped Feminine Man.
Likewise, you can practice what appears to be Leaning Back, but it’s really a manipulative way to ignore a man in hopes of getting more attention.
Male Feminine Energy Traits are often:
- Passive and Receptive: These men are more comfortable in their Feminine Energy. They’re excellent at receiving, which means you’ll be the one constantly giving and doing.
- Emotionally Draining: You’ll find yourself exhausted, feeling like you’re pulling all the weight in the relationship, just to get things moving.
- Self-Centered: They’ll often expect you to make them happy, prioritizing their needs over yours. You’ll be the one working to win their approval.
- Boundary Pushers: They might disregard your boundaries or expect special treatment, as their needs become paramount.
This isn’t about judging anyone. It’s simply the undeniable truth of polar attraction.
Masculine Energy naturally draws Feminine Energy.
If you’re a woman operating primarily in your masculine, you’ll attract a man operating primarily in his feminine. It’s a dance of opposites, and it’s essential to understand which role you’re playing.
Choose Your Dance Partner Wisely
So, ask yourself: Which kind of man truly excites you? Do you crave a man who actively pursues and provides for you, or one you constantly need to chase and care for?
Do Masculine men frighten you a bit? If so, what traits concern you? You may be confusing Masculine with abusive or domineering types.
A few Relationships tips to hold near and dear:
You can’t have two leaders in the early stages of a relationship.
The energetic dynamic needs to be clear: a Masculine Man leading, and a Feminine Woman receiving.
Once that foundation is solid, there’s plenty of room for beautiful give and take.
Of course, a man more connected to his Feminine side can be a wonderful partner if you are genuinely happy and fulfilled being in the giving, doing, and pleasing role.
You can also find HARMONY, not necessarily BALANCE in a relationship where you each have your strengths and healthy amounts of empathy, love, support, GIVING AND RECEIVING.
Love can be easy, effortless, and utterly exhilarating when you have the right tools and understanding.
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