Perhaps you’ve heard of the 36 Questions that lead to love? I’ve had more than a handful of clients tell me about men they meet online who INSIST on going through all 36 questions, before they even meet!
I don’t encourage any woman to invest that much time/energy before 1. speaking on the phone with a man and 2. meeting for a quick coffee i.e. a date.
If a man can bear to ask you 36 questions, he too can pick up a phone and call lovely you, as well as ask you for a date (and show up on time).
Yet these questions are good to ask NOW,
in any existing relationship to keep conversation,
curiosity and closeness flowing.
THE SCIENCE: It’s a bit of a communication ‘trick’ coupled with really listening and going deeper with each question.
THESE QUESTIONS ALSO PEEL AWAY THE LAYERS AND SHOW OUR VULNERABLE SIDE – WHICH LEADS TO CONNECTION,
TRUST AND INTIMACY.
36 QUESTIONS has been tested and proven to build connection
or feelings of love.
Yet we all know, that LASTING LOVE requires MORE
than just 36 Questions 🙂
I encourage you to read over these questions and notice the progression of intimacy that unfolds and ASK YOURSELF how would YOU answer these from a place of feminine energy?
THIS IS GREAT HOMEWORK FOR YOU DIAMOND GIRLS, to
PRACTICE ANSWERING WITH:
OR I FELT…
I’ll get you started with my authentic, feminine, ZERO AGENDA, from the heart, and inside my body answers. See if my answers open you to my heart more?
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QUESTION #2 : Would you like to be famous? In what way?
MY FEMININE ANSWER: I feel giddy inside with this question. Fame alone feels empty unless I’m using it to help something or someone that matters to my heart. I feel so connected helping women and children, especially single moms who struggle in love and creating the happy family they desire. So if fame meant having money, time and exposure to help cultivate the hearts of children and women, I’d feel lovely to be famous.
QUESTION #17 What is your most treasured memory?
MY FEMININE ANSWER: This questions fills me with emotion for the wonderment of faith, prayer and miracles. I shiver inside remembering this magical moment.
I must have been 3 or 4 years old. There was a moment, a very scary and desperate moment where an emergency happened affecting my bother and father.
My mom and I needed to get to the hospital immediately. My dad had the family car, yet on our property we had an old red truck that did not run anymore and had rested in one spot for as long as I could remember.
In my mother’s desperation she loaded me up in the old truck and tried to crank the lifeless engine. It did nothing.
I remember my tummy swirling in fear, not understanding what was happening, yet knowing the truck needed to start. My sweet mom’s face looked sad and defeated in a way I had never seen before.
Mom then took my hands and asked me to pray with her. She asked God to give us a miracle and get us to the hospital.
She held my tiny hands in hers and prayed out loud.
I then watched her turn the ignition once more, and in a loud WOOSH and ROAR the old red truck came to life!
I will never forget my mom’s face, filled with surprise and gratefulness.
In that moment, as a small child, I discovered what a miracle felt like, the power of prayer and faith. I felt that anything was possible with enough love and prayer/belief.
Somehow that old red truck, running on God’s love and fumes, transported my mom and I all the way to Duke Hospital.
Tell me Diamond Girls, do you feel more close to me now?
Can you feel my red heart beating between the words I have written here?
For Homework: Can you find the feelings and words that show your soft feminine heart so you can cultivate the vulnerability and warmth that leads to LOVE and CONNECTION?