What Can You Say to a Man That Makes Him Feel Closer to You?
A man often responds more deeply when your words help him feel appreciated, desired, trusted, and emotionally safe. The goal is not to perform or say the “perfect” thing. It is to speak from a genuine feeling instead of explaining, correcting, or managing him.
Here are a few examples you can adapt:
Words of appreciation
- “I really appreciate how you handled that.”
- “It feels so good when you take care of that for us.”
- “I noticed what you did, and it meant a lot to me.”
Words that express desire
- “I love being close to you.”
- “I’ve been thinking about your kiss.”
- “It feels exciting when you look at me that way.”
Words that invite pursuit
- “I’d love to see you.”
- “That sounds wonderful.”
- “I feel happy hearing from you.”
Words that communicate a boundary
- “That doesn’t feel good to me.”
- “I want to talk when we can both feel calm.”
- “I’m not available for that, but I would love this instead.”
Words that create emotional connection
- “I feel safe telling you this.”
- “I miss feeling close to you.”
- “I feel touched when you share that with me.”
In this podcast, I share some JUICY, Helpful and SEXY scripting examples from “500 Ways to Talk to a Man” in this episode! Don’t miss it!
Here’s an overview of what I discuss:
- Why women need to practice how they speak to a man
- How to use Feeling Statements for positivity more than complaints
- Tips on nurturing a man – don’t do it!
- Texting – how to initiate every 2nd to 3rd communication, with a FS!
- Why you should ALWAYS ask yourself this one question before you speak to a man
- Why eye contact and the “nod nod listen” approach works every time
- More on sharing food with a man 🍕
- SEXY SCRIPTS!!!
- Boundaries, one-sided love, respect & more…
What to Ask Yourself Before You Speak
Am I sharing a genuine feeling, or am I trying to control his response?
Find out if you are aiming for a specific reaction or truly sharing how you feel. A man can feel the difference, and how he responds will amazing you.
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Choose your words carefully 🙂 and if you want to learn more about How to Get Him to Chase You, without You Pursuing Him, read more here.
xoxo,

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